Why Are Poor People Poor?

Being rich is a choice, just as much as being poor. You have often heard people say that choices define who we are and how far we get in life. The choices we make define the level of success we achieve. The reality, however, is that people don’t always choose to be rich or successful, instead poor people choose to be poor!

Why are poor people poor? The answer is simpler than you think. Being lazy and doing nothing is simply easier than going out and doing something. Most people enjoy life’s basic luxuries but never see themselves attaining certain levels of success and therefore find it much easier to give themselves a million reasons to do nothing about it.

When in home town I often run into individuals and old friends that ask me “What do I do for a living?” when driving my Benz or Murano. Most people don’t believe me when I tell them. Despite not knowing who I am or the level of success I’ve achieved, they choose to not believe me since it is easier than actually learning and understanding the path to get there thus confirming why poor people are poor.

Once someone is presented with a path to success, they can:

• Choose to work hard at it and earn their way to the top
• Choose to dream about it
• Choose to do nothing and remain poor

Everyone just like you has the ability to learn and self educate yourself on what you  need to do to have the right mindset to succeed. The truth is most won’t take action. Because of  laziness, most will live paycheck to paycheck and stay poor.  Most will not take a risk on anything that requires them to put in effort and work that is unpaid today but will earn them a greater return in the future.

We are all born under different circumstances and in different places, but the choice to take control of our lives is in our hands. We can sit there and nag that the circumstances we are in are causing us to not be able to take action, or we can start working towards improving them. So choosing to do nothing is a choice, a choice that leads to nothing and more importantly the ultimate reason as to why are poor people poor.

I hope this will answer your questions.. friends...

The Negative Person

It’s funny how the world around us is full of negativity, people that put down anything you do or say, people that simply don’t believe in anything others are doing and people that simply won’t give something new a chance till its something big that others are doing. No matter where, what and when there is always some sort of rejection hanging around us somewhere.

Do you ever wonder why some people seem to never get it? Why they always seem to be against you, instead of help you?

The answer is so much simpler than you think… It’s because they are afraid to look in a mirror. It the simplest answer of them all, most people are just afraid to face the truth.

The truth is their laziness and bad decisions which have led them to who they are today, is the reason most negativity exists in people around you. If you think about who is around you and why are they putting down your idea, its usually because they don’t have one or are not willing to come up with one. If you succeed and prove that someone on their level can do it, then they are faced with looking in the mirror and having to face why they couldn’t do it…so to them you should not succeed. Look at the person that is giving you feedback or putting down your idea, look at their life, look at what they do and ask yourself if that’s the image of your perfect life and then ask yourself ” Why am I listening to that guy?”

Rejection is no different than attempting to enter a house and you find yourself stuck without a key, if you really want to enter then you will find a way and achieve the same outcome going through a different path.

Obstacles are around us everywhere, no one said making it would be easy and without sacrifice, no one said it would come on your first attempt. Those of us that choose to succeed are those that actually make it, because obstacles are no more danger than rejection as they are temporary and usually have a fix around them. Obstacles are meant to have you rethink your strategy and enable you to differentiate yourself from the competition by overcoming them. The pace at which you overcome them also enables you to outrun your competition which will most likely be faced with similar obstacles.

So remember that when you meet that guy, the one that seems to always give you stupid or negative feedback… then just look at him and evaluate if you really want to be like him…if not, then simply walk away…no need to even justify why you do what you do.

In Last day of this year

:) Thanks to those who hated me, they made me a stronger person.
:) Thanks to those who loved me, they made my heart bigger.
:) Thanks to those who were worried about me, they let me know that they         actually cared.
:) Thanks to those who left me, they made me realize that nothing lasts forever.
:) Thanks to those who entered my life, they made me who i'm today.
:) Just want to Thank you for being there in my life.. 
:) Hope you, me and everyone will have a wonderful 2011.:-

Selagi ada bulan mentari

Setahun sudah berlalu sepiku tampamu belum berlalu..

selagi ada bulan mentari
selagi ada berkasihani
selagi ada bulan dan bintang
selagi ada berkasih sayang
selagi ada ombak dan laut
selagi hatiku terpaut
selagi ada turunnya hujan
selagi ada rahmat Tuhan
selagi ada langit dan bumi
selagi hayatku bersemi
selagi ada waktu
selagi ada rindu
biar beribu batu, ingin aku bertemu
oh abangku, damai lah engkau di sana
ku berdoa pada tuhan agar kau bahagia

selagi tu lah dirimu tetap di hatiku
terlalu rindukan kamu ...............
terima kasih kerana hadir dlm hidupku..
hanya diriku yang tahu......

Hanya doa dan alfatihah yang mampu kuberikan untuk mu..

Kelebihan Beristeri Tidak Cantik

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Isteri anda tak berapa nak cantik? Jangan risau kerana sesungguhnya isteri cantik bukan jaminan keluarga bahagia. Kebahagiaan tak pernah ditentukan oleh kecantikan. Bahkan, ada juga suami yang terpaksa menceraikan isterinya cantik. Lihat sajalah selebriti-selebriti wanita di Malaysia yang cantik bercerai juga. Dari segi wajah, penampilan, karier, wang… apa yang kurang dari selebriti-selebriti tersebut?
Inilah beberapa kelebihan mempunyai Isteri yang tak berapa nak cantik:

LOW COSTDia tidak demand ke salon-salon mahal. Treatment muka dan macam-macam lagi jarang dilakukan. Bersolek sekadar seadanya pakai bedak yang biasa-biasalah.
Kos fitness, diet menguruskan badan, sedut lemak, menghilangkan selulit, buat rambut, pakaian branded, dan macam-macam lagi. Mahal tu!

LEBIH SAFEPeluang wanita kurang cantik untuk curang lebih kecil. Kalau jalan-jalan shopping ke mall atau plaza, tidak akan ada yang “pewit”. Tidak ada yang kenyit-kenyit mata, minta nombor HP, alamat e-mail, Facebook, dan sebagainya.

RAJIN BEKERJAWanita cantik risau kulitnya hitam, terkena matahari,tangannya tebal, dan sebagainya. Orang cantik risau kalau mop lantai, apalagi kalau membersihkan halaman rumah. Malah enggan mencuci pakaiannya sendiri, semua hantar ke kedai dobi.
Isteri yang tak berapa nak cantik tidak segan-segan bekerja keras. Semua pekerjaan rumah, housekeeping, biasanya ditangani dengan baik. Tapi memang malang kalau isteri dah la tak berapa nak cantik, malas kerja, suka melawan pula. Hehehe….

LEBIH TAATBukan aku mengatakan semua tapi kebanyakannya isteri yang cantik, kaya, terkenal, terang-terangan menolak status suami sebagai “ketua keluarga”.

RUMAH TANGGA KEKALIsteri yang tak berapa nak cantik umumnya sangat berkomitmen menjaga keutuhan keluarga sehingga maut memisahkan. Tak ada fikiran untuk berpisah.
Cuba kita lihat artis cantik yang senang bercerai kerana sudah banyak kumbang kaya yang menunggu di luar.

Walau apa pun suami pun penting juga, ada hati nak melihat isteri cantik, menarik dan sedap mata memandang tapi penampilan sendiri kurang dijaga terutama perut yang buncit spt orang mengandung tapi tak beranak-beranak huhu, serabai dan sebagainya. Lepas tu ada juga yang menceraikan isteri yang tak berapa nak cantik kerana tergoda dengan wanita yang lebih muda.

Isteri yang tak berapa nak cantik pun jangan lupa sentiasa menjaga penampilan diri supaya dari isteri tak berapa nak cantik kepada isteri yang cantik tapi jangan jadi senarai di atas sudah la.

Hehehe naya2...........

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Allah mmberiku kesempatan.

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Tapi aku mnerima segala yang kuperlukan.

DOA ku TERJAWAB sudah.