Sunday, 30 October 2011

IMAN DAN KEHIDUPAN

Ketika satu pintu kebahagiaan tertutup, pintu yang lain dibukakan.
Tetapi sering kali kita terpaku terlalu lama pada pintu yang tertutup
sehingga tidak melihat pintu lain yang dibukakan bagi kita.:::::::

MUNGKIN kita sering membaca dan mendengar kata2 tersebut TAPI SEJAUH mana kita memahaminya????

MARILAH KITA BELAJAR BERSAMA UNTUK MEMBUKA HATI

Seberat apa pun beban hidup kita hari ini ...
Sekuat apa pun godaan yang harus kita hadapi...
Sesukar apa pun cubaan yang harus kita jalani..
Sebesar apa pun kegagalan yang kita rasai..

Jangan pernah berhenti berharap pada pertolongan Illahi ..
Jangan pernah berhenti berdoa kepada Tuhan Kerana harapan adalah masa depan
Kerana harapan adalah sumber kekuatan Kerana doa adalah pintu kebaikan
Kerana doa adalah senjata orang beriman.

Kita mungkin pernah merasakan betapa tidak berertinya hidup ini, sukar dan membosankan.
Kita seperti manusia yang tidak ada gunanya lagi hidup di dunia. Hari hari yang kita lalui hampa tiada erti.
Kegagalan kita temui disana sini. Cubaan dan rintangan kita hadapi tiada henti. Beban hidup tarasa berat menjerat.
Bagi mereka yang tidak punya iman, mengakhiri hidup yang indah ini sering kali menjadi pilihan.
Hidup ini hanya sekali, terlalu indah untuk kita buat sia sia, kerana memang Tuhan menciptakan makhluknya tidak untuk sia sia. Betapa bahagianya hidup ini bila kita jalani dengan penuh semangat dan keyakinan yang tinggi.
Betapa indahnya hidup ini bila hari hari kita jalani dengan senyum kebahagiaan dan sikap positif memandang masa depan. Betapa sejuknya bila kita sabar menghadapi setiap permasalahan, kemudian kita berusaha memecahkannya dan mengambil hikmah dari setiap kejadiaan.
Sebuah paku pun akan menghadapi masalah pada tubuhnya bila tidak tepat menempatkan diri. Bila ia terletak di tanah basah, suatu saat ia pasti akan berkarat, tidak berguna, terbiar, bahkan mungkin suatu saat akan terkubur bersama karat yang menyelimutinya. Tapi andai kita menempatkannya ditempat yang betul, kita tusuk kan pada sebuah dinding, walaupun ia berkarat, paku itu tetap berguna bagi manusia. Sebagai penyangga, tempat gantungan, atau sebagai penyatu berbagai benda.
Begitu pula kehidupan manusia. Bila kita tidak tepat menempatkan diri kita, tidak sadar siapa diri kita, tidak tahu untuk apa kita di dunia, kita hanyalah sekujur jasad hidup yang meronta ronta. Bila kita tidak memanafat kan potensi yang ada, selalu memandang negatif setiap peristiwa, membiarkan diri berlumur dosa, bahkan tidak tahu dengan Sang Pencipta, kita adalah makhluk hidup yang tidak berguna. Kemudian hidup ini pun terasa berat untuk kita lalui.

Masaalah dan cubaan adalah bunga kehidupan orang orang yang beriman.
Kembalilah kepada Tuhan bila kita menghadapinya agar kita tenang. Lihat,
apakah kita sudah tepat menempatkan diri kita.
Jangan menjadi paku yang terletak di tanah basah terbiar.
Tapi jadilah paku yang dapat memberi kehidupan kepada manusia.
Walaupun kecil dan berkarat, tanpa paku itu sebuah bangunan besar tidak akan pernah berdiri......

Wednesday, 28 September 2011

Finally I awake

To remind me how meaningful my life is

A time comes in my life when i finally get it. When in the midst of all my fears and insanity i stop dead in my tracks and somewhere the voice inside my head cries out - ENOUGH!

Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, my sobs begin to subside, i shudder once or twice, i blink back my tears and through a mantle of wet lashes i begin to look at the world through new eyes.

This is my awakening. i realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. i come to terms with the fact that she is not Cinderella and i am not Prince Charming and that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter). and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with me, and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.

I awaken to the fact that i am not perfect, and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what i am and its OK as they are entitled to their own views and opinions and i learn the importance of loving and championing myself, and in the process a sense of newly found confidence is born of self-approval.

I will stop bitching and blaming other people for the things they did to me or didn't do it for me and i learn that the only thing i can really count on is the unexpected. i learn that not everyone will always be there for me, and that it's not always about me. So, i learn to stand on my own and to take care of myself and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.

I will stop judging and pointing fingers, and i begin to accept people as they are, and to over look their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.

I realize that much of the way i view myself, and the world around me, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into my psyche. And i begin to sift through all the crap i've been fed about how i should behave, how i should look, how much i shouldn't weigh, what i should wear, where i should shop, what i should drive, how and where i should live, what i should do for a living, what i should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children, or what i owe my parents.

I learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view.And i begin reassessing and redefining who i am and what i really stand for. I learn the difference between wanting and needing, and i begin to discard the doctrines and values i've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with, and in the process i learn to go with my instincts. I learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. I learn that the only cross to bear is the one i choose to carry, and that martyrs get burned at the stake.

Then i learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving, and when to walk away. I learn not to project my needs or my feelings onto a relationship. I learn that i will not be more handsome, more intelligent, more lovable, or important.

I learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as i would have them be. I stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes. I learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love. and i learn that i don't have the right to demand love on my terms. Just to make me happy. And i learn that 'alone' does not mean lonely.

And i look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that i will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and i stop trying to compete with the image inside my head and agonizing over how i "stack up." i also stop working so hard at putting feelings aside, smoothing things over, and ignoring my needs.

I learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK. . . and that it is my right to want things that i want. and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands. i come to the realization that i deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, and respect, and i will not settle for less. And i allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes me, to glorify me with her touch. and in the process i internalize the meaning of self-respect.

And i learn that my body really is my mosque. i begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water, and taking more time to exercise.i learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear, so i take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul, so i take more time to laugh and to play.

I learn that, for the most part, in life i get what i believe i deserve. and that much of life is a self-fulfilling prophecy.i learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More importantly, i learn that in order to achieve success, i need direction, discipline, and perseverance.

I also learn that no one can do it all alone and its OK to risk asking for help. i learn that the only thing i must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. i learn to step right into and through my fears, because i know that whatever happens i can handle it, and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on my terms.

I learn to fight for my life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. i learn that life isn't always fair, i don't always get what i think i deserve, and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions i learn not to personalize things. I learn that God isn't punishing me or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And i learn to deal with evil in its most primal state - the ego.

I learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy, and resentment must be understood and redirected, or they will suffocate the life out of me and poison the universe that surrounds me

I learn to admit when i am wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. I learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things i take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly,i begin to take responsibility for myself. by myself, and i try to make my self a promise to never betray myself and to never ever settle for less than my heart's desire.

And i hang a wind chime outside my window so i can listen to the wind. And i make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.

Finally, with courage in my heart and with God by my side, i take a stand, i take a deep breath, and i begin to design the life i want to live as best as i can.

Thursday, 25 August 2011

Bersyukurlah


"luahan ini aku persembahkan untuk sesaorang agar dia mengerti"

Bertanya lah pada diri kamu sendiri:

Kenapa kadang kala kamu harus mengalami kesulitan dan kesusahan sementara orang lain boleh 
bersenang lenang...

Kenapa kamu harus bekerja keras sampai lelah dan tak punya masa sementara orang lain sudah pulang ke rumah...

Kenapa kamu selalu merungut bilamana rezeki datang walaupun kamu tahu itulah punca pendapatan kamu....

Kenapa kamu harus merasa sunyi dan sepi kerana tidak seperti teman2 kamu yang gembira kesana kemari...

Tapi pernahkah kamu bertanya:

Apakah tiada orang lain yang lebih susah daripada kamu malah tidak pernah tahu apa yang namanya senang...

Apakah tiada orang lain yang tidak punya pekerjaan sehinggakan rela dan sanggup bekerja apa pun....

Apakah tiada orang yang setiap bulan berharap akan di kurniakan rezeki yang lebih agar dapat menapung kehidupan...

Kenapa kah kamu selalu melihat ke atas, dan tidak pernah melihat ke bawah?

Kenapa saat cabaran dan dugaan datang kamu menyalahkan orang lain? tetapi kamu lupa bahawa kesenagan kamu kerana orang lain?

Kenapa kamu selalu merungut, tapi tidak pernah bersyukur?

Jawapannya tidak ada di buku mana pun, tidak ada pada siapa pun, tapi di hati kamu sendiri...

bersyukurlah selagi kamu mampu untuk bersyukur....

sebelum segalanya terlambat dan diambil darimu.......


Wednesday, 3 August 2011

Happy Birthday Sayangku


Selamat Malam cintaku, Hanya ini yang mampu ku coretkan untuk mu..Malam yang sungguh indah untuk menunggu detik-detik hari bahagiamu. Selamat Ulang Tahun sayang, aku mendoakan yang terbaik untukmu.

Di hari bahagiamu sebutkan satu permintaan, dan semoga Tuhan mengabulkan permintaanmu ! dan aku berharap kamu berdoa meminta agar hubungan kita semakin Erat. Selamat ulang Tahun kekasihku ! semoga hari-harimu bahagia selalu.

Selamat ulang tahun my honey, Semoga panjang umur dan bahagia selalu, dan satu harapanku di hari bahagiamu, Kita akan terus bersama dalam satu cinta yang utuh. Sekali lagi, Happy Birhday Cintaku.

I am giving u 24 smiles, 1 for each hour of the day 2 make sure u are always smiling happy birthday sayangku…

Sucikan diri dengan wudhu.. bersih kan jiwamu dengan solat… sucikan hatimu dengan ke ikhlasan.. sucikan usia dengan cinta mu.. selamat ulang tahun darling..

I loVe u ForeVeR.. “Beloved,today is the day when u're born.the day that I thanks to God because u were born with those sweet smile, lovely face,and kindness heart.And I'm so happy today because u're mine,and I will always Love u with all my heart .Maybe I'm not so perfect because sometimes i make u cry, but all i can give is my trust,and my love for u I'm yours. Happy Birthday my dear,wish u all the best in this world .

Tidak penting apa yg akan aku katakan tapi lebih bermakna apa yg akan aku lakukan dan kasih abadi buat kamu… happy birthday cintaku sayang….

semoga birthday kamu tahun berikutnya kita masih tetap bersama.. Selamat Ulang Tahun cintaku, semoga aku menjadi orang terakhir yang mengucapkannya karana aku ingin menjadi yang terakhir yang menjadi pendampingmu.

Mungkin hari hujan ketika kamu dilahirkan namun sesungguhnya itu bukan hujan itu adalah langit yang sedang menangis karena ia telah kehilangan malaikat kecilnya Selamat Ulang Tahun Sayang...

Tahukah kamu perasaan yang menyenangkan ketika Seseorang yang merinduimu Seseorang yang memikirkanmu dan Seseorang yang memerlukankan mu Tetapi akan lebih membuatkan kamu gembira ketika kamu tahu ada seseorang yang tak pernah lupa hari lahir mu. Happy birthday My Sweetheart.........

Monday, 1 August 2011

Selamat datang ramadhan

Assalamualaikum……….
Tanpa kita sedari...
11 bulan
banyak kata sudah diucapkan dan dilontarkan
tetapi bukan semuanya menyejukkan,
11 bulan
banyak perilaku dan Sikap yang kita lakukan tidak menyenangkan,
11 bulan
banyak keluhan, kebencian, pembohongan, kesombongan
menjadi sebahagian dari diri,
saatnya untuk kita berehat dari pemuasan nafsu duniawi
saatnya untuk kita membersihkan jiwa yang berjelaga,
saatnya untuk kita mengsyukuri indahnya kemurahanNya
saatnya untuk kita memahami makna penyucian diri
Selamat menunaikan Ibadah Puasa
dan mohon maaf atas segala kesalahan dan ketelanjuran saya
bersama kita leburkan kekhilafan
Semoga dengan ibadah puasa mempertemukan kita
dengan Keagungan Lailatul Qadar
dan kita semua menjadi pilihanNya
untuk dikabulkan do’a – do’a dan kembali menjadi fitrah
Amiin ya Robbal ‘Aalamiin………

Tuesday, 19 July 2011

Happy Birthday Angah

You are the one who made my childhood special and unforgettable. May your love and care for me, never fade away. Happy birthday. I am proud to have you as my sister.

You are my support, my strength, my friend and my guide. Thanks for everything. May God bless you with all his love, luck and care. Happy Birthday and enjoy your day.

May you achieve everything you desire in life. I wish you a very sweet and happy birthday. May you have an awesome life ahead. Enjoy your day.

You stood with me every time I snapped. You made my every childhood experience, a memorable one. You are my best friend since all these years. You are the reason, I believe in myself. Thank you for all the awesome times we shared. Wish you a very happy birthday.

My dearest sister, wish you a very warm and happy birthday. You are not only the sweetest sister but also a true friend. I feel blessed to have a sister like you. May you achieve and get, all you ever wish for.

You made my childhood special. And although the times have gone, the sweet memories shall never fade. May you have a great life ahead. Wish you a very happy and warm birthday. Love you my sweet sister

You have been the oldest friend I have ever had. Thank you for being such a lump of sugar to me, sissy. And no matter how horribly we fight, the truth is that I have always loved you and always will. Happy Birthday.


You are such a sweetheart babe! I just love you too much. On your birthday, I promise to keep all your secrets, and never to miss a chance to make you smile. Happy Birthday, my dearest sister.

Remembering you on your special day and wishing you happiness forever, my dearest sister. May God bless you and may your boyfriend kiss you. Hope you have an awesome birthday.

Happy Birthday to the most happening sister in the universe. I love you so much.

Abang...july 19 2011